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NOT a "typical" Santa Barbara guy seeking NOT a typical girl
What I am not...
I am:
● NOT insensitive
● NOT self-centered
● NOT focused on sports
● NOT focused on cars
● NOT focused on material possessions
● NOT trying to "keep up with the Joneses"
● NOT searching for a tall blonde with big boobs and long legs
● NOT a narcissist
● NOT an alcoholic
● NOT selfish
● NOT a user
● NOT married
● NOT a "player" and...
● NOT looking for a one-night stand
You are:
◊ Appreciative
◊ Warm
◊ Friendly
◊ Genuine
◊ Compassionate
◊ Optimistic
◊ Fun-loving
◊ Imaginative
◊ Sincere
◊ Communicative
◊ Creative
◊ Emotionally available
◊ Adventurous, and...
◊ Looking for a real connection with a REAL PERSON
So now that you know what I am not, you might be wondering who I am...
I'm a romantic, soulful and down-to-earth guy who is friendly and easy to talk to...
I am living a peaceful, creative life - writing, designing websites, and catching up on many of the things I never had time for while I was living life in the fast lane. I own my own home, and live with my three cats - they're great company, but I'd prefer to feel YOU purring next to me instead :)
I've been very involved with personal growth and would like to meet a woman who is too (and preferably one who is emotionally balanced, emotionally available, having closure on your last relationship).
Carl Rogers, the world famous psychologist, once said that "Individuals reach their greatest potential and experience their fullest humanity when they are involved in a close relationship with another person with whom they can share their triumphs and failures and be unconditionally accepted." These are not just words for me, but rather an ideal that I continually aspire to.
I believe you'll find that talking to me is an experience that's refreshingly different. I'm well-educated, well-read, and I've traveled to many countries all over the world. For . My friends would describe me as romantic, kind, understanding, sincere, resourceful, a good listener and articulate, open-minded, and affectionate.
I'd like to meet a woman who would enjoy meeting me with the intention of creating a loving, long-term relationship. I'm a non-smoker, and generally a non-drinker, but occasionally I can enjoy a glass of wine in the right company. I'm a rational, clear-minded, expressive human being in search of a woman who is more or less like me and who sincerely wants to find a good friend and romantic companion of the opposite sex. I'm sensual, sensitive, and sexual when the time is right. I like having fun, I enjoy talking and listening, and I'd truly like to share my life with an honest, attractive, feminine woman without playing games or taking unfair advantage of each other's kindness. I'm straight-forward, but also warm and friendly. I'm insightful, fun-loving and adventuresome. I have no bad habits, no lurking ex-wives, no family problems, and no unpaid bills. I'm completely open, aware, and curious to learn more about myself, my partner, and the world around me.
I'd love to share all of this with a kind, understanding, intelligent woman who is emotionally mature, affectionate, who can appreciate a man's depth, and who would like to share her life with me, as I would enjoy sharing mine with her.
If you'd like to meet a man who can touch your heart and warm your soul; if you're open to a loving connection with a man who is kind, sensitive, and insightful... then please, take the next step and introduce yourself.
Non-smoker only, widowed (at least 2 years) or divorced (with your divorce final), age 40-63 preferred. Your native language should be English. Please reply and tell me a little about yourself. When you write, please say something specific about what I've written so I know that your message is a genuine attempt to communicate with me. (Quoting a sentence or two will work). A photo would be nice and will be greatly appreciated. You should be ready, willing, and able to embark on a new relationship - with the time for one as well. No recent breakups or separations please; no allergies to cats. I'm looking for a real connection and a meaningful, healthy long-term relationship - and I'd like to meet a woman who is too. The photo below is recent.
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the girl I meet in ss easton at her house
I came over and we had fun tell me wheee we where in your house and whst we did Sorry lost your number and did not want to knock on your door Put in header what was color of my car Want to meet again I thought u where sexy and cute Send so I know it is u Your daughter knows me as unck e 
