First of all good stuff! Thank you all for the points of view that is what I really need. One person said if she touched Woman want real sex Saint-Felicien me contact HR. Well she has touched me on the shoulder, back, arm, etc when talking. Not to mention she is good friends with our manager that started a little before I switched into her department never having talked to or seen her before. When the previous manager retired and the current one took over I had to change becasue my old job was eliminated. Oh and her older sister works with my wife at another company so it is ugly all the way around. The people who said tell my wife don't understand. There would probably be a national news making shooting spree starting with me. Really this all went to another level in my mind last week when I was leaving the parking lot in a car I had recently acquired (in a deal as it turns out) that I had been talking with the guys at work about. She stopped by the exit to the parking garage as she was walking out. I could have just driven right by, but I stopped and we talked about the car. The car is kind of low she was leaning over in the passenger window well you get the idea. So I find myself thinking I should if she wants to go for a drive. This was a big red for me. Then finally she said I guess you should get home and I left. I suppose I like the attention so my behavior encourages it but it has to stop somewhere. Maybe it go away on its own if I just ignore her?